In the state of Oregon 1 out of every 98 children has autism.

Why us? What should we do? Who can I talk to? These are the questions we asked when we first learned that our precious son had autism. This web site is dedicated to the people who have just discovered this heartbreaking news. We want to help you take the next step. Its devastating when you find out your child has autism. We didn't know where to go or what to do. We started by using the information from our doctors to find a local support group. This was VERY helpful. It introduces you to other people who can support you and have been where you are now. There are a few steps that you can start on immediately to help your child. We have them listed below in order. We don't have the magic bullet and we don't have all the answers but we do have a sincere desire to help navigate you through these really rough waters. We are NOT doctors, so please check with your doctor before starting any supplements, therapies or medications.

 

If you are new to autism and don't know where to start then maybe we can help. You may feel overwhelmed, you've heard something or read something but you are not sure how to put this information to use. You may be wondering what you should do first and what can wait until later. Below is a list of things we did (or wish we would have done). You might start with this list and then make changes after you find more information specific to your child. You will find that you are continually making changes along the way. We asked some of our friends (other parents who have children with autism) to help. This is what we came up with.

  • 1st: Find a support group (join our support group)
  • 2nd: NO MORE VACCINES (until you can make an educated decision about it) (vacinfo.org)
  • 3rd: Read one or both of these books: Unraveling the Mystery of Autism and Pervasive Developmental Disorder by Karyn Seroussi and/or Children with Starving Brains:A Medical Treatment Guide for Children with Autism Spectrum Disorders by Dr. Jacqueline McCandless

  • 4th: Start on the gluten free/casein free diet (autismndi.com)

  • 5th: Find a (DAN! doctor)

  • 6th: Kirkman's Super Nu-Thera (kirkmans.com)

  • 7th: Nordic Naturals Cod Liver Oil (megson.com)

  • 8th: Probiotics (kirkmans.com)

  • 9th: Houston's enzymes (houstonni.com)

  • 10th: Check into ABA and/or RDI (Applied Behavior Analysis, Relationship Development Intervention)

 

A story to remember:

There were two warring tribes in the Andes, one that lived in the lowlands and the other high in the mountains. The mountain people invaded the lowlanders one day, and as part of their plundering of the people, they kidnapped a baby of one of the lowlander families and took the infant with them back up into the mountains. The lowlanders didn't know how to climb the mountain. They didn't know any of the trails that the mountain people used, and they didn't know where to find the mountain people or how to track them in the steep terrain. Even so, they sent out their best party of fighting men to climb the mountain and bring the baby home.

The men tried first one method of climbing and then another. They tried one trail and then another. After several days of effort, however, they had climbed only several hundred feet. Feeling hopeless and helpless, the lowlander men decided that the cause was lost, and they prepared to return to their village below.

As they were packing their gear for the descent, they saw the baby's mother walking toward them. They realized that she was coming down the mountain that they hadn't figured out how to climb. And then they saw that she had her baby strapped to her back, How could that be? One man greeted her and said, "We couldn't climb this mountain, How did you do this when we, the strongest and most able men in the village, couldn't do it?"

She shrugged her shoulders and said, "It wasn't your baby."

Jim Stovall, You Don't Have to Be Blind to See (Nashville: Nelson, 1996), 268.

 

 

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